Finding Purpose in Singleness

Written by: Layne McDonald, Ph.D.

"But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." – Matthew 6:33

In a world that often pressures people to rush into relationships, it's important to remember that singleness is not a waiting room—it’s a season for growth, purpose, and deepening your relationship with God. Too often, singleness is seen as incomplete or temporary, but in reality, it can be a time where God molds and prepares you for greater things. Through singleness, you have the unique opportunity to focus on your spiritual growth and to serve with a whole heart, all while pursuing your calling in Christ.

The Power of Purpose in Singleness

Research by Barna Group reveals that single men who engage in purposeful activities report greater emotional health and life satisfaction. This emphasizes the importance of living intentionally during your season of singleness. It's not about waiting for the "right time" or the "right person" to arrive—it’s about living fully in the present, serving God, and being shaped by His plans.

Tips for Finding Purpose in Singleness

• Focus on Spiritual Growth Through Consistent Bible Study
  Singleness offers the gift of uninterrupted time with God. Commit to daily Bible study to strengthen your relationship with Him. As you immerse yourself in His Word, you grow in wisdom and gain clarity about your purpose. Matthew 6:33 reminds us to seek God first—everything else will follow.

• Serve in Church Ministries to Use Your Time for God’s Kingdom
  One of the most fulfilling ways to invest in your season of singleness is to serve in your church. Whether it’s volunteering in youth ministry, helping with outreach programs, or assisting with administrative tasks, serving allows you to use your time for God’s glory and builds connections with others who share your faith.

• Discover and Cultivate Your Spiritual Gifts
  God has equipped each of us with unique gifts and talents. Take time to discover and cultivate yours during your time of singleness. Whether through music, teaching, hospitality, or leadership, your gifts are valuable to God and His Kingdom. Use this time to refine them and prepare for the ways God will use you in the future.

Encouragement for the Journey

Remember, singleness is a gift. It is a season to pour into your relationship with God and to grow in ways that will serve you well in the future. Trust that God has a beautiful purpose for this season, and that He will guide your steps. You are not waiting for your life to begin—you are living it fully, serving Him with everything you have.

Call to Action

Are you ready to embrace the fullness of your season of singleness? Join our men's ministry and discover opportunities to grow spiritually and serve God’s Kingdom. Visit www.famemphis.org to learn more about how you can get involved and find purpose in this season of life.

Embrace the present, trust in God’s timing, and step into all that He has for you. Singleness is not just a phase—it’s a powerful opportunity to grow, serve, and glorify God with your life.